It is true that there are no specific ways to be happy. We don’t have a “life-guide on how to be happy” with us and happiness is subjective to different people; what makes me happy doesn’t mean that it will make you happy. However, there are a few simple ways for you to put some efforts to be on that road called “the road of happiness”.
1. Be Grateful
Often people feel unsatisfied with what they have in life. They tend to compare themselves with others. “She is lucky that she is able to buy stuff without having to worry about money, whereas here I am counting coins for me to buy food for tonight”, for example.
One friendly advice, instead of going ‘ohh lucky you, ohh lucky him, ohhh lucky her’, why don’t you compare yourself with those who are less fortunate than you? Start saying “I am lucky to have some money left for me to be able to buy food while some people can’t even afford to buy a simple meal”. That way, you will be more grateful and be content with where you are right now.
2. Be Confident
It is true that when you are confident, you will give out the best version of you. The best version of you equals to the happy you. Wear that nice smile of yours, put on your best look wearing comfortable clothing and accessories to show off with confidence. It is okay to look nice even when you are just running errands.
3. Love Yourself
Put yourself before anyone else. Love yourself so much that you know what you deserve. Some people often forget to love themselves and ended up settling for less. When they settle for less, they feel…incomplete. Thus they won’t be happy with what they are doing, who they are with and overall unhappy with their life. If you are one of those who love yourself a little less, start now by loving yourself a little more.
4. Don't Rush Into Things
We often rushing into things feeling that we don’t have many time left (I am guilty but honestly, aren’t we all?). Try to relax. Some day you need to wind down. Go for a holiday, go enrol yourself in that baking classes that you have wanted to join, join a marathon or basically, go and have fun! Sooner or later, things will fall into places.
Dearest readers, so what do you do to make you happy? Share with us by leaving comments below, who knows that your way of being happy might be useful to others.