Relationships

How to Be A Good Listener In A Relationship

How to Be A Good Listener In A Relationship

If you’ve just embarked on a relationship with someone (or have been for several years or decades) here’s some pretty good advice on one of the essential things to keep in mind which is how to listen. Sure we do it every day but many times we fail to do it the right way. Now’s the time to take a step back and mend our ways so check this out. 1. Remove Distractions First off, put away your gadgets, turn down the music and preferably sit somewhere isolated from the public. Be all ears to your loved one…

The Warning Signs You Are Afraid of Commitments

The Warning Signs You Are Afraid of Commitments

Everyone couldn't escape reaching the adult phase. The challenging part of adulthood is the obligation to implement all types of commitments. It is the level of the time where we meet many responsibilities in life which includes marriage, parental, families, death, career, buying a house, paying bills, and working hard to create a better life. These things are increasing life value but could get quite stressful, however, it tends to be a normal thing to go through for every adult. Despite that, there are some people who are fearful…

Signs That Shows Men Are Seriously Committed to You

Signs That Shows Men Are Seriously Committed to You

A lot of people think that men are the simplest when it comes to relationships but contrary to popular belief, men can be difficult to read sometimes. They would think of something, say it differently, and do the total opposite; that is just how men are in a relationship. That is why women's complaints that men sometimes do not make sense is quite legit. So, how would you know if he is seriously committed to one? What are the signs showing that he indeed wants to be your life partner? Do not worry ladies as we got the deets…

A Girl's Guide to Finding Mr. Right

A Girl's Guide to Finding Mr. Right

Every single girl certainly dreamt of finding Mr. Right and wishes to marry one. This is because we see Mr. Right as someone who can understand us in almost every single aspect from our attitude to accepting our weaknesses. However, it is not easy to find your Mr. Right like Cinderella did. All she had to do was have a fairy godmother, wear the perfect dress and glass heels. And the prince came to find her by just one encounter at a ball. Well, reality wise it is way harder and you need to know what you want in your Mr. Right…

How to Be Supportive When Your Friend Is Going Through A Breakup

How to Be Supportive When Your Friend Is Going Through A Breakup

A good friend of yours is going through a bad painful breakup. Dealing with this kind of conflict, you know that it is not easy for anyone involved. You wish you could offer some help and put her out of misery. What can you actually do? How should you treat her and her bruised feelings? Well, first of all, you need to be as supportive as possible. Here are some simple practical guides that can be applied so that you will be better at comforting your friend. 1. A concern call Make a call. Reach out to your friend via phone calls, voice notes or texts…

How You Know You've Found Your Soulmate

How You Know You've Found Your Soulmate

Disney fairy tales and romantic comedies have brought us to believe that soulmates really do exist and is easy to find one. Just with one simple kiss, those two lovebirds have sealed their fates into becoming one for each other. It is somewhat unrealistic but, in a way, quite possible. Some people do not believe in soulmates but that is just because their expectancy is too high. Soulmates ultimately are two people clicking with each other instantly without any friction to make things awkward. It can be platonic, or it can romantic, but…

What Not to Do After A Breakup

What Not to Do After A Breakup

A quote saying “never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option”  can be applied to you if you just had a breakup. There are so much reasons that can lead to breakups like he has another girl, he got bored with you or it can be you two don’t have any chemistry anymore. For whatever reason it is, at the end of the day you know that breakup is hurting you.  Losing one person that you love makes you want to change your life a little bit but remember, there are some things that you can’t do after a breakup. Just read…

Date Night Ideas for Married Couples

Date Night Ideas for Married Couples

Being married is not as easy as it seems because it requires a lot of hard work, compromise, understanding, trust and communication just like any other relationship but squeezing some time to spend together might be difficult. Both you and your partner hardly get enough time to spend together which are mainly because of responsibilities, chores or even when your focus goes to your child. It does not mean you forget one another but most of the time life just gets in the way. For the married couples who secretly or obviously misses the romance,…

How to Get a Girl to Approach You Instead

How to Get a Girl to Approach You Instead

Why is it always the guy’s job to approach a woman first and not the other way around? You are sick of this “rule”, we know. So, why don’t we turn the tables and let the women make the first move this time? But how do we do that exactly? How do we get girls to approach first instead? What seem to be an impossible task is actually quite simple if you play your cards right. Do not worry, we are going to give you some tips on how to do the impossible, which is to get a girl to actually come and say hi first. 1.    Dress well There is no other…

How to Get Out From A Toxic Friendship?

How to Get Out From A Toxic Friendship?

Especially to us ladies, friendship makes an essential part of our lives. We allocate a lot of our time and attention for some midnight phone calls, bi-weekly sleepover party and on each other’s D-day. If you happen to rent with our best friends, you’ll tend to exchange your clothes, accessories and even shoes with one another because it’s pretty common for us share our stuff. Despite the strength that is built with your friends, one can’t really negate the fact that toxic friendships do exist. There will be one, or probably some of those who’d…

How to Make Your Love For Each Other Last

How to Make Your Love For Each Other Last

Long-standing romantic relationship with your partner seems like illogical for people who don't believe in true love. Romantic relationship with intense love can be elusive for some people that are less sensitive. Some of you might not see that there are strategies to keep the love that you feel towards your partner last longer and stronger. Of course, beauty inside out is part of it but if you ever heard the "Grow old together" quotes, you will know that it is achievable as long as you both make an effort. But, what we want is how to maintain…

Ways To Heat Up Your LDR

Ways To Heat Up Your LDR

When you are in a long distance relationship, a variety of emotions and feelings will happen every time you meet, or sometimes not. Feeling shy, awkward, speechless, jealous will surely happen and therefore there may be some quarrels between each other. However, being away can also make us feel excited to meet with our partner. This situation is different from the normal couple who meets daily and there are plenty of ways to heat up your LDR until you finally get to meet again. 1. Special delivery what should I get for her birthday?”, “he got…

Proof That Age Is Just A Number

Proof That Age Is Just A Number

Is age really 'just a number' in relationships? When it comes to loves, “the heart wants what it wants or else it does not care”, quoted by Emily Dickinson. Hence, we cannot help with whom we fall in love whether younger or older than us. As long as we have that connection emotionally, age is just a number. Our society holds negative stigma regarding age difference. Often time, we think that our feeling is wrong when our significant other is much older than us. But, with relationship we must expect the unexpected. Don’t close ourselves off based…

Signs That You Are Officially Over Him for Good

Signs That You Are Officially Over Him for Good

Going through a breakup is hard enough where you feel deeply hurt, wearing sweatpants, not wanting to get out of bed and feel like your life is hopeless. Most of us have gone through at least one breakup in our lifetime and each of us have different ways on how we handle heartbreaks. However, when do you actually know that you are officially over it for good? Here we list some of the signs that might help you realize that you have slowly moved on with your life.1.     You are not crying constantly When you go through a breakup, it cannot…

How to Get Over An Ex for Good

How to Get Over An Ex for Good

If you’ve ever gone through a break-up you must have tried everything to get over him or her. If you still hold strong feelings for your ex it will be even more difficult or near impossible to handle. But nothing is impossible and with a little effort and self-belief you can overcome this battle and be rid of your ex forever. After all, what is out of sight will eventually be out of your mind. So check out these tips we have on how you can do that. 1.  Surround Yourself With Love This includes people who love you like family and friends. Where else will…

How to Support Your Significant Other Into Following Their Dreams

How to Support Your Significant Other Into Following Their Dreams

As you vow to live together with your significant other, it carries a tremendously large responsibility to adapt your life in order to suit each other’s preferences. This could also come in the form of giving support to him/her to chase their dreams. Whether in career, possessions or hobby, one could really use a strong support coming from their family members especially the other half. So in this article, we are going to list down several impactful ways of showing your support to your significant other into following their dreams. 1. Pay attention…

How to Let Go of Relationship Baggage

How to Let Go of Relationship Baggage

People say breaking up is the hardest part of the end of a relationship. We respectfully disagree. What is worse than that is getting rid of the baggage that comes right after it. There you are trying to move on from the relationship, but something is just holding you back from it, preventing you from letting go. We understand that there is sentimental value on things that might mean something to your relationship but remember that that is all in the past. It is time to let go all of this unnecessary baggage that do not contribute to your…

Why Having More Male Friends is Better

Why Having More Male Friends is Better

Have you ever wondered why some women have more guy friends than others? This might be a controversial statement but honestly, guys make better friends than girls. Sure, with girls, you share an intimate bond that is difficult to break but when it comes to a long-term friendship, men kind of do it better. Men live by a bro code that they take very seriously so no matter what happens, they always got your back even if it means giving up their day. Your girlfriends on the other hand say they would do anything for you, but they…

Signs You Are Already His Girlfriend Even Though He Hasn’t Officially Asked

Signs You Are Already His Girlfriend Even Though He Hasn’t Officially Asked

So, you sort of being dating this certain guy for some time which started from a friendship but you are not really sure what you are to him because he never officially asked for you to be his girlfriend. Whether he assumes you already are with the ways he shows his interest in you or he is just waiting for the perfect time, this can be very confusing especially if you are really into him. If you have been close to him for some time now and wondering whether you are someone special to him, here are signs that you are already his girlfriend…

Can You Still be Friends With Your Ex?

Can You Still be Friends With Your Ex?

One of the most said phrases after breaking up with someone is usually, “we can still be friends”. But are you really friends with your ex after that though? Although it is always considered a mistake remaining in contact with an ex, it is actually not that bad once you figured out a proper way to. Of course, it would not be a good idea if you had a bad breakup prior to this but if you and your partner split in good terms, why not maintain that friendship you once had? However, there are boundaries and rules when remaining friends…